Love Rx

Break-ups currently surround me. This morning, two gorgeous ladies I know, were exchanging stories about their break-ups, how difficult it was to adjust and all that "hanging there" lines.

Last night or this early morning, my two bestfriends gate crashed my ready-to-sleep house and over some cans of beer, shared their own stories of break-ups.

My stance to this kind of situation has always been the same -- that when a guy broke your heart, we ladies should ask ourselves what do we want to do now.

Do we want to lie down and sleep all day and forget that our scariest nightmare had just come to scare us more?

Or do we want to anonymously text our ex and tell him how stupid he is for fooling us?

Or how about wanting to be dead-drunk all day?

Bottomline is, let's go to the basics. Let's not ask the most complicated questions nor give enormous justifications (like, "bakit nya ko iniwan?" "may mali ba ako?", etc. etc.).

Focus on the basics. And that's what we are going to do. Let's cry, let's bombard his phone with curses and all that junk we have been saving for situations like this (if this is what's gonna help us feel better), let's drink all day and party, or let's just forget the guy and move on.

What if we want the guy back?

But... does he deserve another chance? He fooled you, remember? Superego, superego.

But hey, this is just Jajajanice's opinion.